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Adoula · Joined: 28 Jul 2004 Posts: 3591

Do U remeber John and Lorena Bobbitt case and its aftermath.

As you should remember, this was the couple in Virginia where the wife said he raped her, and then she cut off his manhood with a kitchen knife.

Do U think she did the right action??

May be if she left it, Perhaps it would have benefited SOMEONE else :wink:

Another case, a Kansas woman has been arrested after allegedly biting off part of her boyfriend's tongue.
Police in Wichita said the man tried to kiss the woman to make up after a fight. :lol:

I would like to advice men, not to kiss their girlfriends just after the fight.

Now,
Just asking all women, what will be your reaction with your cheating husband?

Just curious, but not afraid :x

Monica · Joined: 10 Mar 2004 Posts: 4933 Location: Egypt

Adoula...ma balaaash !!! :lol: :lol:

Lorena Bobbit gave a few men a great scare...and it was strange how the husband went and made money using this situation..

If a husband cheats...he should tell me why....( shuf el habal baaa) and if I find he has a good reason I will forgive him..
hahahahahhaha....

Really ..I would be so heart broken that he would risk losing ME for a CAPRICE ..which is french for something that was not necessary...I don't think I'll be able to trust him again!
Dump him? I think so...but

Let's define C H E A T I N G please...

internet cheating?
affair cheating?
fooling around cheating? ( I did not have a sexual relationship with THAT woman...Ms lewinsky)
flirting around cheating?
emotional cheating?
lying cheating?

Adoula · Joined: 28 Jul 2004 Posts: 3591

Eh el halawa de.

Hope all women are like U, just asking why her man cheating, then see if will forgive or not... :o

I don't like the last two definitions for cheating, may be flirting out is the one.

Gamalat · Joined: 09 Aug 2004 Posts: 915

ha ha...because that will include many things... Adoula wrote:

I don't like the last two definitions for cheating, may be flirting out is the one.

BaNaNa`SpLiT · Joined: 21 Jul 2004 Posts: 1702 Location: All over

Tab I will be serious for very few seconds and ask the women here w khosoosan gamalat... what is emotional cheating? Ya3ny if you're married and out of the blue you start feeling for a coworker or a friend or anything is that cheating? Nothing happens no words no declaring nothing but just feeling would that be cheating?

end of serious phase... see? didn't take more than seconds :lol:

Gamalat · Joined: 09 Aug 2004 Posts: 915

yes, that type of feelings are cheating for the people who have "blood"! for people who donot have any blood, anything short than the intercourse is not cheating !!!

Of course, islam has a very specific definition of adultery because of the very grave consequences of that definition.

where is man-kind to tell us about the christian definition of adultery..As far as i remember it is a very strict one !!

BaNaNa`SpLiT wrote: Tab I will be serious for very few seconds and ask the women here w khosoosan gamalat... what is emotional cheating? Ya3ny if you're married and out of the blue you start feeling for a coworker or a friend or anything is that cheating? Nothing happens no words no declaring nothing but just feeling would that be cheating?

end of serious phase... see? didn't take more than seconds :lol:

ZouZa · Joined: 29 Aug 2004 Posts: 7

In Egypt, we are brainwashed that it is the fault of the woman when her husband cheats.

Men get away with it, and know they can.

I would probably 'punish' him first. And while enjoying his suffering, I would make up my mind to dump the idiot, or keep punishing him for a while, to enjoy my sweet revenge.

Flirting is in the nature of many. Unluckily, with weak and lost souls, it leads to cheating.

Gamalat · Joined: 09 Aug 2004 Posts: 915

I thought that we r brainwashed to forgive..but not really to consider it to be our fault...

Yes, men get away with it, after a very severe reprimand and 2arest wedn!!!

I guess, yes, one should revenge and then divorce !!! :lol:

ZouZa wrote: In Egypt, we are brainwashed that it is the fault of the woman when her husband cheats.

Men get away with it, and know they can.

I would probably 'punish' him first. And while enjoying his suffering, I would make up my mind to dump the idiot, or keep punishing him for a while, to enjoy my sweet revenge.

Flirting is in the nature of many. Unluckily, with weak and lost souls, it leads to cheating.

The Egyptian · Joined: 16 Aug 2004 Posts: 2806

Gamalat wrote: I thought that we r brainwashed to forgive..but not really to consider it to be our fault...

Yes, men get away with it, after a very severe reprimand and 2arest wedn!!!

I guess, yes, one should revenge and then divorce !!! :lol:

ZouZa wrote: In Egypt, we are brainwashed that it is the fault of the woman when her husband cheats.

Men get away with it, and know they can.

I would probably 'punish' him first. And while enjoying his suffering, I would make up my mind to dump the idiot, or keep punishing him for a while, to enjoy my sweet revenge.

Flirting is in the nature of many. Unluckily, with weak and lost souls, it leads to cheating.

Yekhrebeet afkarek ya Gamalat. Da enti mouseba. Ana mesh 3ayez ategawez khalas.

Oh my god Gamalat, What Ideas you have?

BaNaNa`SpLiT · Joined: 21 Jul 2004 Posts: 1702 Location: All over

ZouZa wrote:
I would probably 'punish' him first. And while enjoying his suffering, I would make up my mind to dump the idiot, or keep punishing him for a while, to enjoy my sweet revenge.

Zouza you forgot to include this... in your post :lol:

S C A R Y ya maaaaaaaama

Gamalat · Joined: 09 Aug 2004 Posts: 915

I donot undeerstand, was not the name of the thread, how do u deal with your cheating husand ?
What did u expect ya gama3a?
We tell the truth !!..

Did any man expect a woman to say, i will try to understand why he cheated on me and sulk for 2 days and then make him make up with me with a fine solitaire and a big fat promise not to do that again ??
:P

BaNaNa`SpLiT · Joined: 21 Jul 2004 Posts: 1702 Location: All over

Gamalat wrote: yes, that type of feelings are cheating for the people who have "blood"! for people who donot have any blood, anything short than the intercourse is not cheating !!!

Of course, islam has a very specific definition of adultery because of the very grave consequences of that definition.

Gamalat I was asking seriously wallahi. of course I don't think anything less than intercourse is not cheating but the thought or the feeling? tab what if someone had feeling for someone else? yente7er wala ye3mel eah? like say I'm married (ashtatan ashtoot :lol: ) and I started to like a coworker that spends 9 hours a day with me. Can you stop feelings from developing? what would you do if they developed khalas?

and yes islam doesn't punish for the thought or for the feeling because otherwise we would be all sent to hell on the day one of puberty :lol:

The Egyptian · Joined: 16 Aug 2004 Posts: 2806

Gamalat wrote: I donot undeerstand, was not the name of the thread, how do u deal with your cheating husand ?
What did u expect ya gama3a?
We tell the truth !!..

Did any man expect a woman to say, i will try to understand why he cheated on me and sulk for 2 days and then make him make up with me with a fine solitaire and a big fat promise not to do that again ??
:P

No you say leih keda ya 7abibi howa ana mesh bastak wala eih. Blash te3mal keda tani wa khalas. Shoufti sahla ezay.

You just say why did you do this? Am I not enough for you and then please do not do it once more and finished.

Gamalat · Joined: 09 Aug 2004 Posts: 915

so even without a solitaire...dee teb2a ba2a maltasha !!!
The only thing that a man can understand is money...so when he pays whenever he cheats..and pays dearly..only then can he stop (or at least learn to cover his tracks in a better way.!!!)

The Egyptian wrote: Gamalat wrote: I donot undeerstand, was not the name of the thread, how do u deal with your cheating husand ?
What did u expect ya gama3a?
We tell the truth !!..

Did any man expect a woman to say, i will try to understand why he cheated on me and sulk for 2 days and then make him make up with me with a fine solitaire and a big fat promise not to do that again ??
:P

No you say leih keda ya 7abibi howa ana mesh bastak wala eih. Blash te3mal keda tani wa khalas. Shoufti sahla ezay.

You just say why did you do this? Am I not enough for you and then please do not do it once more and finished.

The Egyptian · Joined: 16 Aug 2004 Posts: 2806

Gamalat wrote: so even without a solitaire...dee teb2a ba2a maltasha !!!
The only thing that a man can understand is money...so when he pays whenever he cheats..and pays dearly..only then can he stop (or at least learn to cover his tracks in a better way.!!!)

The Egyptian wrote: Gamalat wrote: I donot undeerstand, was not the name of the thread, how do u deal with your cheating husand ?
What did u expect ya gama3a?
We tell the truth !!..

Did any man expect a woman to say, i will try to understand why he cheated on me and sulk for 2 days and then make him make up with me with a fine solitaire and a big fat promise not to do that again ??
:P

No you say leih keda ya 7abibi howa ana mesh bastak wala eih. Blash te3mal keda tani wa khalas. Shoufti sahla ezay.

You just say why did you do this? Am I not enough for you and then please do not do it once more and finished.

la nas7a awi ya gamalat. Very smart galamat